Saturday 7 January 2012

How to kiss

Preperation:

  • Make sure your lips are moisturized and soft
  • Make sure your breath smells good (read the mini-guide on page 3)
  • And your body too, take a shower
Step 1:

Make the other person feel comfortable. If your partner looks nervous, calm him/her down a little bit, say some nice things and put up a cute smile.

Step 2:

Touch your partners face, stroke it lightly. Touching someone’s face lightly is a lot more sensitive and erotic than hard stroking. Move your eyes between your partners eyes and his/her lips.

Step 3:

Give a small kiss on the cheek, and then look in your partners eyes, smile again.

Step 4:

Move in for the kiss, slowly. Tilt your head a little bit so your noses don’t hit each other. Close your eyes and do not stick your tongue in immediately, just give a slow and sweet kiss on the lips. Kiss either his/her lower lip or upper lip, it doesn’t really matter, but pick one.

Step 5:

Open your eyes and look at each other, time to smile again. Lightly stroke your partners face again, and go in for another kiss.

Step 6:

Repeat step 4 and 5 as long as you want, vary between the upper lip and the lower lip. If you feel you’re both ready to go on for real French kissing, than move to step 7.


Step 7:

Repeat step 4, but now slightly brush your tongue over his/her lips slightly, and watch for the response. If it’s positive, you can move on to step 8.

Step 8:

Do the same thing again, but this time, stick your tongue in a little but further. Do not shove in your whole tongue in your partners throat at once, keep it slow and sensitive. If you want, you can place your hand in the back of your partners neck.

Step 9:

When you’re kissing, brush you’re tongue against his/her tongue. Make some circles or figure 8’s. You could also explore his/her mouth a bit with you’re tongue. Just go with the flow, everyone is a bit different. Just don’t start making circles like a blender and don’t let your tongue sit there doing nothing.

Step 10:

From time to time, pull back, and repeat step 9 again. It’s definitely good to vary a little bit by tilting your head to the other side from time to time. If you had your head tilted to the left, tilt it to the right next time.

Different tongue movements

  • Circles – Circling your tongues around each other
  • Figure 8’s – The same as the circle, but now your moving in an 8 figure
  • Pushing your partners tongue up, down, left or right
  • Bullying, by pulling your tongue back and moving it back in
  • Be playful and creative, go with the flow!

Kissing Variations

  • Moving your head while kissing, for example in circles or figure 8’s
  • Bullying, by pulling back if you’re partner tries to go in for another kiss, then moving in for the kiss yourself when they react to your pulling back
  • Standing behind your partner, and kissing over the shoulder
  • Kissing different body parts (face, neck, or lower…) in between

What to do with your hands?

  • In the back of your partners neck
  • On your partners butt
  • Touching/stroking your partners face
  • In the your partners backpockets (not to long)
  • Use your imagination! Be creative and random

Things to avoid / Most made mistakes:

  • Making very fast circles with your tongue, like a washing machine.
  • Leaving your tongue in their mouth, doing nothing. This is a big turnoff.
  • Sticking your tongue in to deep, if you’re partner starts choking, you’re in to deep.
  • Starting to tongue-kiss to early, follow all the steps above and don’t go from step 1 to step 8.
  • Forgetting to breathe through your nose, if you kiss a bit longer this is going to be important.
  • Not using your hands, see above for some tips on how to use them.
  • kissing to wet, make sure you swallow your saliva before you kiss.
  • Problems with a bad breath, make sure you deal with this before you kiss
source: howtokiss.cc

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