Howto improve relationships

To gain some degree of expertise in personal relationships, whether love or friendship, we must be willing to invest a certain amount of time to retrain personality.

Many times the conflicts in this area due to a fairly high degree of shyness which coincides generally with low self-esteem.The shy person is conscious to a degree superior to the other of low self-esteem, and that's what generates the same paralysis, so that as a first point in the relations of shyness personal talk.

Shyness and Relationships Personal
To relate is to talk, to speak there to have something to say , shy people feel they have nothing to say or believe what they say is not relevant, or never find "time to say ". This more or less sums up the way that makes the timid subconsciously. It is a false deduction as being as human everyone has something to contribute and usually do not go to conventions of genius where what we say may sound like an idiot. To begin to overcome that fear, to retrace that path could state that is not important what is said but as they say, more so when our goals we are aiming towards relationships personal. No because they have no fear about what was going to say because the talks at a meeting or a party are descontracturar and relaxed and no one expected to say something great. This leads to the second point is how to succeed in expressing relationshipspersonal.

 Expression and Foreign Personal Good talkers seduce with words and this makes them occupy a high place in any meeting or conversation. Good talkers are those who know us more, but those who are somewhat aware of your audience and your emotional state. Be mindful to know when to make an intervention is very important, as important as knowing when to yield the floor. Be aware of the precise moment where we say something funny, or thoughtful, or smart, but always something that the public is demanding. No matter what you say but how, remember that the target is therelationship and not our personal worldview. Wanting to draw others to our particular view of things can have a negative impact on other people. More simple and right to learn to relate it to float in the conversation to find time to say something and then bring the discussion forward.  

 Interacting with the opposite sex as shyness factor triggering the paralysis and lack of involvement in relationships personal increases when the opposite sex involved. For this case the methodology to be applied is the same as we have been detailed above. It does not matter what is said but as they say. It is more important at the time of seduction or conquest forget our own positions and drift into the conversation right where slopes of time involved. Make you feel comfortable with the other is the first requirement of any approach. Whether a man and a woman must see the language as a form of music that should be in harmony. Think about it: the music is silent, yet expresses a lot of things: that's the key. No matter what is said but how. And what we should sound like music.



The general recommendation, in short, is to deactivate, to the extent that we, the vast machinery of the intellect that superimposes the ideas and thoughts to all that happens in a conversation, echándonos down, decentralized or pressured to say something intelligent .

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